Tuesday, April 8, 2008

Thoughts on nagging and making fun

Maddy was a simple boy till the time he reached college. When he reached NIT Trichy, he came into company of friends where nagging and pulling legs were common. He felt a bit awkward at first. Then he started feeling that it is no harm. Eventually nagging got pronounced whenever he started interacting with others on light matters. It continued even after he became a software professional. Then he realized the following.

Nagging and making fun is a cowardly act to blow up others' inability. It rises out of inferiority complex and ends up in superiority complex. If we closely analyze on the possible causes of this state, we come to know that lack of self-belief, lack of empathy, and lack of acceptance of the truth (esp. when it is against your interests and is for others' interest) as the prime causes. This is not an uncommon thing. It just takes a conscious effort to tell good bye to this habit. This will drive away sarcasm as a bonus.

My wonder, Maddy stopped nagging from then on.

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